Amen! True. Ladies, and Gents, wait for the right mate.
This brings to mind a thought I have mulled over a lot lately. I am greatly BLESSed of God to have the best husband ever. We believe we were made for each other and it works because we “fit”. We are very happy together. However, with my husband’s health issues, he has made it clear that if God takes him before me, it’s okay if I marry again. Problem being that I can’t fathom life without him and I don’t want another.
That’s not the thought though. This is.
The other day a friend asked us to name something in our lives that is not necessary for life, but that we feel we can’t live without. Prayerfully thinking on that, my answer was, surprisingly, “my husband.” As I have thought on that, I realize, a mate of the opposite sex is biblically necessary for propagation of the human population, but a mate is not a necessity to a life of abundance. Though God often blesses us to find a mate, and He makes that one a part of our abundance, we can and should be able to live a good life even when we aren’t finding our soul mate.
And here is the point to my Ponderings: we must be careful to not fall into the trap of thinking, “I must have a mate to complete my life.” When we fall into that trap, that is when desperation hits and we chance grabbing the first thing that comes along and finding ourselves miserable because we thought a mate necessary to abundant life.
The Apostle Paul said something I believe fits here as well as on any subject related to finding abundant life. He said, “Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4:11-13 NLT – https://www.bible.com/116/php.4.11-13.nlt)
God is the only true necessity to abundant life, and when we have Him, we have our need, for He sees to everything necessary to life. The question is, have we learned contentment in Him? If not, we will constantly find ourselves longing for things we think will make our lives full and complete. But as we recognize and find contentment in God as our one true need, He empowers and provides our abundance. That includes His BLESSing us in due season with the mate He made to fit us.
When we earnestly seek God, all else is found in Him.