Content Life

Amen! True. Ladies, and Gents, wait for the right mate.

This brings to mind a thought I have mulled over a lot lately. I am greatly BLESSed of God to have the best husband ever. We believe we were made for each other and it works because we “fit”. We are very happy together. However, with my husband’s health issues, he has made it clear that if God takes him before me, it’s okay if I marry again. Problem being that I can’t fathom life without him and I don’t want another.

That’s not the thought though. This is.

The other day a friend asked us to name something in our lives that is not necessary for life, but that we feel we can’t live without. Prayerfully thinking on that, my answer was, surprisingly, “my husband.” As I have thought on that, I realize, a mate of the opposite sex is biblically necessary for propagation of the human population, but a mate is not a necessity to a life of abundance. Though God often blesses us to find a mate, and He makes that one a part of our abundance, we can and should be able to live a good life even when we aren’t finding our soul mate.

And here is the point to my Ponderings: we must be careful to not fall into the trap of thinking, “I must have a mate to complete my life.” When we fall into that trap, that is when desperation hits and we chance grabbing the first thing that comes along and finding ourselves miserable because we thought a mate necessary to abundant life.

The Apostle Paul said something I believe fits here as well as on any subject related to finding abundant life. He said, “Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4:11-13 NLT – https://www.bible.com/116/php.4.11-13.nlt)

God is the only true necessity to abundant life, and when we have Him, we have our need, for He sees to everything necessary to life. The question is, have we learned contentment in Him? If not, we will constantly find ourselves longing for things we think will make our lives full and complete. But as we recognize and find contentment in God as our one true need, He empowers and provides our abundance. That includes His BLESSing us in due season with the mate He made to fit us.

When we earnestly seek God, all else is found in Him.

The Vital Practice of Pondering

“But again the magicians of Egypt used their magic, and they, too, turned water into blood. So Pharaoh’s heart remained hard. He refused to listen to Moses and Aaron, just as the Lord had predicted. Pharaoh returned to his palace and put the whole thing out of his mind.” (Exodus 7:22-23 NLT)

I believe learning to ponder things is vital to the life of abundance. Mary, mother of Jesus, appears to have this same belief as she practiced pondering things in her life experience.

Pondering is not worrying. To truly ponder, from my experience, requires a sense of wonder: a watchfulness that expects to see God / God’s way. It looks to God for comprehensive understanding of situations and experiences in search of truth and the righteous way. It seeks God to know His opinion and align self with Him. In my opinion, to fail to ponder life before our Holy God is dangerous for us and those around us.

However, there are three things we as humans tend to do instead of pondering: we worry, fear, and fret; we fume, plot, and plan; or we put it out of sight, out of mind, and ignore it. Here, we see Pharoah doing the latter of those three things. The hand of God against him is deemed insignificant and unworthy of his attention.

Beloved, I believe that scripture reveals to us that nothing is allowed into our lives without first being sifted through God’s righteous fingers, and set forth for His Holy purpose. Instead of fretting and fearing, pondering watches for God’s trustworthy Hand, ready to glorify and praise Him. Instead of fighting and fuming against what God is doing, pondering brings us to align and ally with Him in the work He is doing. Pondering never assumes God is not trying to tell us something, teach us something, or use us in some way. Righteous pondering always sets its sites on God, to know truth that leads to godliness, that we may walk with Him in accomplishing His purpose and glory in His reality.

Watch The Binding

““Then my father said to us, ‘As you know, my wife had two sons, and one of them went away and never returned. Doubtless he was torn to pieces by some wild animal. I have never seen him since. Now if you take his brother away from me, and any harm comes to him, you will send this grieving, white-haired man to his grave. ’ “And now, my lord, I cannot go back to my father without the boy. OUR FATHER’S LIFE IS BOUND UP in the boy’s life. If he sees that the boy is not with us, our father will die. We, your servants, will indeed be responsible for sending that grieving, white-haired man to his grave. My lord, I guaranteed to my father that I would take care of the boy. I told him, ‘If I don’t bring him back to you, I will bear the blame forever.’ “So please, my lord, let me stay here as a slave instead of the boy, and let the boy return with his brothers. For how can I return to my father if the boy is not with me? I couldn’t bear to see the anguish this would cause my father!”” (Genesis 44:27-34 NLT)

After the loss of Joseph, Israel became overly attached and protective of Joseph’s full brother, Benjamin. We know from other things said by Israel that he loves his other children and grandchildren, but his grief over Joseph has hindered his affections for them and lead to his becoming all “bound up” in Benjamin; just as the death of Rachel lead to him being bound up in Joseph, thus causing the jealous out-lashing of the others that sent Joseph into captivity.

Two thoughts come as I consider this highlighted passage. First, like was Israel’s need, we need to be careful to not be all bound up. When that happens to a person, we chance putting too much into one child, friend, object, to the neglect of others. We also chance that person or object slipping into the position of an idol that gets lifted up above our God in our desires and affections. Thus we must take care to watch what is binding us up.

The other thought that came to heart is this: with Father God, being bound up in His child is totally different and doable. God is all in all, without limits. While He gives His all to you, He can still give His all to me simultaneously. He can and, I believe, IS all bound up in each of us who truly and wholeheartedly seek after and look to Him as Father.

While we must watch against being detrimentally bound up, Father gives His all to all. We never have to feel neglected by Him or jealous of other’s relationship with Him. We simply need to seek Him for ourselves with the assurance that we will find Him as we search for Him with our all bound up in Him. When we are bound up in Him Who is all, in all, He will equip us to rightly bind with others.