The Vital Materials of Healthy Boundaries


In these strange times, we need to be people with “healthy boundaries – to have the proper wall and gates in place so as to keep the good things in and the bad things out.” Unknown

Not an exact quote, but adjusted from a reading I’ll link below, it is a desperately needed thought for me today. Father has been inspiring in me the past several days concerning the truth that I have lost focus.

The unbelievable chaos and upheaval and uncertainty of our days have grabbed my thoughts and broke down some vital walls. As a result, conspiracy theories, contradictory information, false reports, and the chaos of riots flowing too readily into my living room have me reacting out of confused flesh. God is telling me that, despite all these things, my focus as His child, His ambassador to this area in which I live, is unchanged: God, First and foremost, His Word, His truth, His message, His love, His faithfulness…etc. Just typing that out, my heart lifts, my spirit stills, my hope rises, I enter my Rest. That truth deserves a “Selah!” Pause, and calmly think on that.

Today, as I read the author’s reminder to remain within our healthy walls of protection, as I read it my prayer is to understand the materials of our walls and gates, so we have focus to reestablish and maintain it. Of those materials, two things arise in me: 1. our walls are all these things I’ve listed, that outlines our God and His faithfulness, and 2. our gates are the fruit of His Spirit working in us who represent and serve God.

God, His Word, His truth, His message, His love, His faithfulness…etc., provide the impenetrable wall and rampart of protection. Every arrow shot at us through this world chaos is stopped and it’s fiery dart squelched by God’s faithfulness. Keeping that vital focus is paramount to the strength of our walls against every attack of Satanic resource. Remembering that God is not the author of confusion, signals us when an area of our wall is under attack and in need of focused attention. Reaffirming our faith in God’s faithfulness is our tool for every repair job.

The fruit of the Spirit working in us are our gates with their powered control systems that help us know what can come in and go out from us. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control/temperance, along with humility, faith, and trust, are the 12 gates we possess as God’s temple: the gates through which we protect what we have and bless those around us, without the world getting at us and tearing down our walls – our faith in God’s faithfulness.

I am so grateful for God-thoughts, those truths of understanding inspired by God’s Spirit that are His voice to us, calming, stilling, instructing, and commissioning us for righteousness, fruitful service in our day, and peace with the still-more-excellent-way of love as our focus even now. These truths help me, causing me to STAND, and stand firm. I pray they help you as well.

God is faithful. This we know full well. All the confusion and chaos of this world is squelched and set in order as we remain within the walls He provides and the gates He controls.

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit. Let us not become boastful, challenging one another, envying one another.” – Galatians‬ ‭5:22-26‬ ‭NASB‬‬

(Near quote is from Walk Through The Bible 365 – July: Day 23 • Devotional)

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